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Sometimes sisters don’t look anything like each other. In “A Constellation of Vital Phenomena” the story revolves around a pair of sisters that are as different in personality as they are in appearance. This has always been the case with me and my sister Jessica.
My sister is 5 years older than me (sorry Jess!) and she is almost my complete opposite in appearance. We have completely different face shapes, noses, body frames and even opposite hair. Hers is light, straight and fine, mine is dark, kinky and thick. Every time people meet both of us for the first time we get asked the same inadvertently rude questions: “are you real sisters?” and/or “are you FULL sisters?”
What also stands out to people are our very different personalities. Jessica is outgoing, friendly and sociable, while I tend to be “an acquired taste”
When we were children (and still actually) we had completely opposite hopes for gifts–Jess wanted to open hundreds of small presents, while I didn’t mind receiving only one expensive item.
There was certainly not much we had in common growing up and we didn’t always get along. Now that we are older and have families there are quite a bit more things we have in common, but she remains completely alien to me at times. Sometimes I look at the differences between me and my siblings (I have a brother too) and I wonder how we all could have grown up in the same house with the same set of parents. I’m sure most families are like that, no?
In “A Constellation of Vital Phenomena” Natasha is the beautiful sister and Sonja is the bookish one, and I’m sure you can tell that I naturally related more to Sonja. If you haven’t picked up on this yet, my sister was always considered the attractive one out of the two of us girls. I can still remember one middle school classmate of mine (who I still can’t help but think of as such a jerk) and his pudgy face uttering: “Why can’t you look more like your sister?” How nasty, right? But I think that I developed a thicker skin because of that. I don’t know if I could ever be a tough-as-nails surgeon like Sonja (I’m a blood-phobe) but I’m happy with my tougher personality as a result
Disclosure: This post was inspired by the novel A Constellation of Vital Phenomena by Anthony Marra. In war torn Chechnya, a young fatherless girl, a family friend, and a hardened doctor struggle with love and loss. Join From
Left to Write on May 20 as we discuss Anthony Marra’s debut novel. As a member, I received a copy of the book for
review purposes.
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