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Or would that be an introverted extrovert?  This month’s From Left to Write book club pick is “Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking” by Susan Cain.  I knew before I started reading “Quiet” that I am an introvert.  Fo’ sho.  And just to see what my husband would say, I asked him if he thought I was an introvert or an extrovert.  And then I was kind of amazed that he was waffling and started to say “…well…”  I thought it was so cut and dry.

Marc thinks I’m an extrovert(ish) because I “put myself out there”.  Because I am not (that) afraid to go to new places and meet new people, like blogger events or Meetup group playdates.  So yes, I guess I have moments of extroversion, but ultimately I would say that I’m an introvert through and through.

While reading this book, there were various questions to help one assess whether or not he/she is an introvert.  As I was reading the questions, almost all of them had me answering “yes” in a loud, monotone, Napoleon Dynamite-ish way.  There was one that stuck out, it was something along the lines of “do you enjoy being in the company of friends, but find that you need alone time afterwards to recover?”  (loose paraphrase, I’m too lazy to go upstairs and get the book off my dresser).  Not only would I say yes, but I have to add my own:

“Do you have a general sense of dread when thinking about hanging out with your friends and not want to call them or make plans to get together?  Does sitting on the couch with the computer in your lap, your iPhone in your hand, playing Scramble with Friends with your husband who is sitting 2 feet away from you sound more appealing than happy hour with your mom friends?  YES?!  Then you my friend, are not just an introvert, you have crippling social anxiety!“  ding, ding, ding!!!

I don’t know why that is.  I really love seeing my friends.  I like hanging out with other girls, drinking wine, playing games, complaining about other people, and all the usual stuff girls do.  But something about committing and making plans gives me tension.  After I hang out, though, I think “that was so fun!!! I must do this again!! Soon!!!”  And then the cycle repeats.

So in a lot of ways I’m kind of a bad friend.  I don’t realize that a lot of time has elapsed between communications until things get awkward.  I often say that my friends have to be really hardy.  They know that I might forget to respond to their text AND their facebook message, but that I really do adore them and mean to respond to them and eventually will.  Thank God for these people that still like me!

And thank God for Marc being such an extrovert.  While I read this book, it was so funny to realize just how introverted he is not.  He thrives on constant communication with people, going places, competing in his career as a salesman.  I guess that’s why we are a good pair. :)

Are you an introvert or extrovert?  Author Susan Cain explores how introverts can be powerful in a world where being an extrovert is highly valued.  Join From Left to Write on January 19 as we discuss Quiet: The Power of Introverts by Susan Cain.  We’ll also be chatting live with Susan Cain at 9PM Eastern on January 26.  As a member of From Left to Write, I received a copy of the book.  All opinions are my own.

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Menu Plan Monday

by Bay on January 16, 2012

Not so shocking confession: I hate menu planning.  I mean, let’s be honest, who wants to sit down and think about meals for the week, in advance, look at recipes, type it all up, etc?  It’s a lot easier to wait until 5:15 when I call my husband to remind him to leave work (workaholic, much?) and tell him that “I got nothin’ in the way of dinner!” and then we load up and go out to Cosi.  (I love Cosi!!)  But obviously when we’re on a budget, that’s not the best idea.  And it does get stressful trying to figure out what to eat the day of.  So in a way I love menu planning.  I guess it’s a love-hate relationship.  So anyway, here’s my plan for the week:

Monday- Tortellini with mushrooms and bacon

Tuesday- Beef Lombardi

Wednesday- Chicken with sun dried tomatoes

Thursday- Tilapia

Friday- Meatloaf

Saturday- Out!

Sunday- Pizza

For more menu plans/inspiration check out Menu Plan Monday

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A blog worthy date night

by Bay on January 8, 2012

At this stage in my life, any date night is blog worthy.  But last night’s date was my Christmas gift from Marc, and was a really lovely time.  Before Rayna was born, Marc and I used to have a membership at the Walnut Street Theatre in Philly.  We loved it, because of course the shows are really fun, but also it ensured that we would actually get out and have a nice “city date” and not just eat at Bahama Breeze for the umpteenth time.

So flash forward two kids later and the theatre is just one of those nice things we used to do, and might do again in a few years.  Instead, when trying to come up with my Christmas gift, Marc went ahead and bought a membership again, to make sure that we actually went on some fun dates.  And what’s nice is that they are pretty well spaced so they’ll still be pretty special.

Last night’s, though, was extra special because the show was ‘The King and I.”  I love The King and I.  So our babysitter finally arrived and we were off to the city to try to find someplace to eat before the show.  Note to self, and any others who might want to get dinner near the theatre on a Saturday night at 6:30….make reservations more than a day in advance. I was thinking about trying a Greek restaurant nearby called Kanella, and then they were booked.  And then everything was booked.  So we decided to try Jones or El Azteca if we couldn’t get in anywhere else (both of those were suggestions from Twitter friends, I love getting immediate Twitter feedback!).

After roaming around the streets around the theatre, we started getting stressed out about getting back to the theatre on time.  So we had to go somewhere very close and eat fast.  There’s a Panera-esque place right by the theatre, there was a Chipotle-esque place, and a Chinese place.  Marc was voting for Chinese and I was getting distressed that we weren’t going somewhere nicer.  So we decided to go just a smidgen further and then we stumbled upon M.  That’s the name of the restuarant, “M.”  It was attached to a lovely courtyard of the historic Morris Hotel and was quiet and romantic-ey.  They didn’t have availablity in the dining room, but could seat us in the bar area, at one of the tables looking out of the window…score!

Then we get the menu and the choices were strange.  Almost everything was priced around $12-18 and I deduced that they must’ve been small plates.  And they were, kinda.  You could order small plates a la carte or get a sampling of 3 for $30, 4 for $40, etc.  We decided to just get 2 each, one soup and one meal.  The descriptions of the food were perplexing; it would say something like “Butternut Agnolotti. Chicken Sausage. Pickled Cantaloupe. Raspberry.”  Huh?  But we went with it, and it was definitely interesting and delicious, albeit tiny.

First, the bread came with a “burnt hay butter”, yes burnt HAY, which I didn’t care for, it was almost like someone sprinkled char from a grill on perfectly good butter, but whatever Marc liked it.  Then came the amuse bouche which was a “smoked chocolate” which tasted like crumbled bacon, very strange.  I also did not care for this, and Marc did.  Then were the soups, mine was something I never heard of like Jerusalem artichoke?  I don’t know, but it was very yummy.  Marc’s clam chowder was good, but no Jerusalem artichoke.  Then our meals came out.  I should’ve noticed that the waiter kind of asked me “what else” when I ordered the agnolotti that it was going to be miniscule.  But here it is:

that's it!

It was good, just not as good as Marc’s rib eye with cheddar crust.  That was killer.  So I guess now that you are fore warned I would recommend M as the food was really different and delicious if you know what you’re getting into.  Plus, the service was great and they were really into helping us get to the show on time.

So the show.  Was.  Fabulous.  It was really cute, just like my beloved movie edition.  No one can replace Yul Brynner, but the main actress was actually way more likeable than Deborah Kerr, who I never really cared for.  The sets were great, the extras were great, the children were just ok (one flubbed her lines and some other tiny ones seemed to have a hard time focusing), but one MAJOR distraction was one of the background dancers.  Imagine an Asian Jack Black in tights doing ballet with serious GUSTO.  The other guys dancing in the Uncle Tom’s Cabin performance were all toned and muscular, but this one guy was like Chris Farley in the Patrick Swayze Chippendales SNL sketch.  I couldn’t stop giggling, it was a riot!

I’m really looking forward to our next night out at the theatre, but it’s not until May.  It will probably seem like a lifetime til then!

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So it’s a new year…

January 2, 2012

First off, Happy New Year!  I wish all of my family, friends and blog-friends a happy, healthy and prosperous new year!  There’s something so nice about a fresh new year.  The holidays are cleared out of the way and there’s months to go before summer, so why not try to get a little “out with [...]

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Menu Plan Monday

December 26, 2011

Yeah, I’m back on the bandwagon.  After all of the holiday spending we are trying out the envelope system of budgeting.  It’s going to be a really big change for me, because I’m used to spending a bit mindlessly.  So first step to being on track with my budgeted envelopes is to plan.  This week [...]

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Happy Holidays!

December 23, 2011

Yeah, so, I ripped that picture off my blog from a post that’s 4 years old.  (I can’t believe I’ve been blogging that long either.  It might not be top quality, but at least I’m not a quitter!)  Why no picture of my tree this year?  It’s in pretty sad shape right now, actually.  I [...]

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My Oral-B Stages playdate & MommyParty

December 18, 2011

I recently hosted a Winnie the Pooh ”MommyParty” for Oral-B Stages.  Basically that means that Oral-B Stages provided me with some materials to host a fun play date.  I had a Winnie the Pooh viewing party, where we watched the new movie.  We also had some snacks and, of course, play time.  First we set up, popping popcorn [...]

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Oh hello December…

December 13, 2011

…and hello blog readers.  I actually haven’t forgotten about you.  I’ve just been….well, doing all those things that you’re probably doing.  The holidays do seem to get busier every year, but accomplishing those holiday related tasks gets exponentially more difficult the more children you have.  And I only have two.  Imagine if I had five–I [...]

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Rayna models Hartstrings

November 30, 2011

We were fortunate to be able to choose one special outfit from Hartstrings to review here.  I admit, that I had previously never heard of Hartstrings.  So I headed over to their website to choose an outfit and was overwhelmed by the cute choices, especially for the holidays. I chose the Medallion Print Leggings in [...]

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Post car accident carseat

November 20, 2011

Yes, car accident.  Thursday, on his way home from work, Marc got hit by another car.  He was getting off the highway exit near our house and there’s a 4 lane situation with a lot of merging going on.  While he was waiting at the light some girl in a tinted out Prius slammed into the back of [...]

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